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RELATIONSHIPS
I have been with my husband for 32 years and we have four children together (14,16,18 and 22). Over the years we’ve struggled with money (husband is a self employed builder) and I have got some biggish debts which are under control as I have a payment plan in place. He also has some debts. I have also always worked, some of the years part time, but I’ve been full time for the last 3 years and do overtime regularly. Anyway, my mother in law died a year ago and left my husband just over £200,000 which was totally unexpected. He said he wanted to pay off the mortgage (£45,000) and gave the kids £2,500 each. I really hoped he would offer to pay some of my debts (not all) but I feel really awkward about talking about it with him! He did pay the rest of the money I owed my dad for my car (£3,500) so he’s given me something. Any thoughts?
I 28F have been in a relationship with my partner 30M for about 7 years now. Of course when we first starting seeing each other we were going at it like rabbits, he couldn't stop touching me, wanting to be with me. He just seemed to be extremely attacted to me. We moved in together last year and everything, to me, has started to change. He doesn't touch me, doesn't compliment me, and doesn't seem to desire me...It's left me feeling like garbage. YES, I have picked up some weight but I don't think Ive changed all that much. So now we have sex once every two weeks and it feels like its obligatory for him becuase he seems so far gone from the situation, or I'm the one who is desperately trying to initiate any sort of intimacy. I've tried talking to him about it and he just says "I'm tired", "I dont feel good", "Not now". I feel like I'm convinving him to want to be intimate with me, which as I'm sure you can imagine doesnt feel great. Other than that, we still hang out, have conversations, more or less the "Best Friend" aspect is still there, if that makes sense. I know we are getting older, I know we have busy lives, but it feels off. Can you help me understand if I'm going crazy, or is my bf just not into me anymore?
So, I (23F) recently got married to my husband (29M) and we’re currently living with his family while our house is ready to move in. I didn’t feel too good yesterday so spent the day in bed and came downstairs in the evening. My husband was sat on one sofa, my MIL on the other, so I sat on the empty sofa to avoid spreading any virus. Shortly after, my husband came and sat next to me and asked if I’d rub his back. I told him I wasn’t feeling great and would appreciate if he could give me a rub. He said he would do when we got in bed later and moved back to the other sofa. His mum went and sat next to him and gave him the back rub he wanted, rubbed his head and neck while looking at me. I felt very uncomfortable. Then my husband started rubbing his mums back and shoulders. I was completely astounded that he refused to touch his wife but did for his mother. We later had a conversation where I expressed how it upset me and I felt embarrassed that he very clearly showed his mum she gets what I don’t. He said I was overreacting and he didn’t feel comfortable rubbing me in front of her, and can rub his mother because we’re living in her house. He says I’ll get this treatment in our own home but he doesn’t think it’s appropriate in his family home. Am I overreacting?
We're going through a rough patch. We've been arguing over the fact that he's choosing to play Fortnite every night instead of being a partner to me and a father to our children. We've gotten no where with "compromise" and talking/arguing about it. Well last night, I'd had enough. I snapped and asked him what he wants from me because at the minute, I feel like I'm just here to give him a roof. I do ALL childcare and housework, he works 8-4.30pm, comes home and does sweet FA. I'm sick of it. His response was that he doesn't care if our relationship finishes OR continues, he's just going with the flow. What do I do now?
PARENTING
So I recently noticed that my sons “friends” are coming to my house and their parents will leave and lock their doors and tell their kid they will be back in a few hours. The last time this happened I told his friend that his dad can’t just leave him at my house without speaking to me first because it happens alot. Now he isnt friends with my son anymore. it seems like all the friends he has had are always at my house for a reason other than being friends with my son. Toys, video games, food. When I tell them to play outside they leave my son behind. I feel angry about the situation because there is nothing I can do. Am I wrong for not wanting to watch these kids?
My daughter is a very happy, very bright 7 year old 2nd grader with a head full of dreams. Unfortunately, that means most of the time she is constantly losing things. Last year it was bad enough that she was losing a pair of gloves and a hat per week, if not more frequently. Where we live, most of the year you can't be outside for a few moments without those items, you'll suffer frostbite or worse. They've only been back to school for three weeks. She's already lost a pair of indoor shoes, a jacket, her agenda, a bunch of her supplies. This morning, I get an email from her teacher that she was in line for class without a jacket, but wearing gloves?! I did giver her gloves and a jacket when I dropped her off. I'm perplexed. I'm waiting for the day where I get a call from child services that I'm reported for never sending her to school with gloves or a jacket! How do I get her to be more mindful?
My son is in high school now and is having a small party this weekend. We keep all of our liquor in a cabinet in the basement. I would prefer not to move it because our house is not very big and I just don't really have any place else to store it. So I was thinking maybe getting those magnet baby locks for the cabinet? I don't want to get a real lock because I don't want to drill into the cabinet door. I know nothing is foolproof but I'm just looking for something to be a deterrent. Any suggestions?
So, my mind is kind of in a whirlwind right now. Last night my 6 year old son told me that he didn’t want to exist. He told me he wishes he were dead and wants to kill himself. I am just, at a loss. My and my husband both have history of mental illness, so I knew he would probably have trouble later on, but I wasn’t expecting it this young. I thought I had more time to talk to him about depression, and try to prepare him. I’ve contacted a few child psychologists this morning, but I haven’t heard back yet. What do I do in the meantime?
WORK
Some coworkers have a way of getting you to overstate. How do you tighten up the boundary like, very tightly?
Recently I'm feeling less motivated at work. I don't want to learn a new skill, Just hitting the office finishing the job and coming back. Does anyone else feels the same? How do you keep yourself motivated?
Recently, I left my job for a new one because the contract on my original job was coming to a close and there wasn't an opportunity for me to get extended/converted. I got an offer to join a new company after a relatively quick interview process. I am only into my first week so far but the job is not what I expected it to be. Now, im worried that if I left after only a week it would ruin my chances of finding a better one because future employers may find out or speak to my original contract job and ask why I left. Should I just stick with this new job for a year?
My boss isn't aware of my speech impediment as I would like to keep this information to myself. My boss really likes the quality of my work and has no other concerns but keeps bringing up my communication and how can I actually get to the next level as long as improve my communication. However, I know that due to my speech impediment I can't overcome my hesitation to speak in front of a group. Some days I feel like mentioning to my boss that I have a hearing issue which has impacted my speech and it should not be a deciding factor when considering promotion but at the same time I feel that by sharing this information I am letting them decide for me whether I can do certain stuff or not. I don't want anyone else to be making that decision for me. I work in a corporate world and communication skills are considered really important even if you are mediocre at your job, as long as you can bullshit convincingly. Should I share this with my boss?
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