What to Do When Life Takes an Unexpected Turn
Blaming yourself or others distracts you from constructive problem-solving.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/turning-straw-gold/202009/what-do-when-life-takes-unexpected-turn-it-just-has
Pesach: The Freedom that comes with the Power to Decide
https://unexpectedlifeturns.com/
Accepting Life’s Unexpected Turns
https://thelinnacademy.com/2022/03/31/accepting-lifes-unexpected-turns/
SEX
Is it ok of me to make an ultimatum to a guy that I won't swallow unless he tries his own cum at least once first?
So I(M) had my first kiss with a good friend(F) tonight, we've known eachother for a year now and we went on a date to see how an "us" would function. At the end of it she insisted we try and kiss; she is experienced and it's my first time; so we ended up kissing and I tried some tongue and the whole mile. Afterwards she just seemed so unsatisfied? Like there wasn't a frown or a smile or blushing or anything. Have i done something wrong?
What is the thing with anal, that makes so many men want it?
Husband tested positive for oral gonorrhea yesterday with throat swab. I tested negative for throat and urine. He was very borderline verbally abusive about how I was cheating and gave it to him from ‘kissing’. Did he cheat?
RELATIONSHIPS
how to stop my family from feeling entitled to come to my city and stay days at my apartment I share?
I am 24F and I share an apartment with one of my closest friends 25M. The apartment is a 2 bedroom so it’s not really that big or small- just a normal sized place in a tourist city. It’s been about 4 times already this year that my family has self invited themselves to stay at my place without asking me prior. My older sibling stayed here over 3 weeks, before leaving, and coming back a month later to stay another 3 nights. The other time it was my mom and aunt staying 2-4 nights out of the blue. How do i tell them this has to stop?
my boyfriend’s cousin disrespected me and punched my boyfriend when he confronted him about it. My boyfriend beat his cousin up and now my partner’s mother wants to meet with me alone to talk about what happened. She begged me to not tell my boyfriend. What do I do?
Should I 21M accept the apology of my bully from school?
He (23M) and I (21F) been dating for 6 months. Official for 3. I am a college student who went to my hometown (an hour away) for the summer. He asked me to be his girlfriend right before I left and we did long distance. He was able to visit about 5-7 times. Two nights ago I moved back in and was now living in the same city as him. I was so excited. But that night I found out he cheated on me. He cheated about two months after I went to my hometown. He kept it a secret and the girl eventually told me. Do I take him back?
PARENTING
Son want's to be called "gargabe man", refuses his given name. Hes two. what do we do now??
How do you all feel about having a “kid free zone” after a certain time before they go to bed? Like for example, 8pm rolls around and your kids go play in their play area or their bedroom away from your living room or where you’re relaxing. They have their technology, toys, etc to play with. They’ve already done all their bedtime routines so no need for you to worry about that later. It’s considered quiet hours and they’re not allowed to come barreling in and bug you during “adult time / kid free zone” typically they’ll stay up to 9:30pm and then get a notification on their clock to let them know it’s time to go to bed (electronics auto turn off then too)
A few days ago we were at a family BBQ and 9ne of my relative's dog suddenly barked and scared my 4 month old daughter, who I was holding at the time. Of course she started crying a little and as I was calming her down, my mother came over to pick her up and went to bring her to my wife, who was talking to some people a little further away telling me that she obviously needed her mommy. And this is just one example of people assuming mom is way more capable than dad.Why do so many people consider dads to be second-rate parents?
My daughter, 11F, today told me she saw something on YouTube called "LittleSpace" and she likes it. She explained it as adults or teens who dress as and act like babies or toddlers. They have a small cozy space in which to wear a onesie, use a pacifier, drink special warm milk from a baby bottle, and color in coloring books. This immediately made me very uncomfortable, but I didn't show it and instead said it sounded cute. She went full on into the conversation, asking if I could buy her pacifiers and a baby bottle. She's already talking about the space she will convert in her room into a cozy spot that she can sit and color in coloring books with a pacifier. She said it can be to wind down at the end of the day, to relieve anxiety, or to that for some people that have "childhood regression" and just live like babies to relive their bad childhood. How concerned should I be about this? Is there a chance this is just something innocent? I wanted to support her, so I played it cool, but inside I am dying. After we talked she went on Amazon and found a pacifier she wanted. She asked me to order it for her, used her own money to pay me. I don't even know what to say. The pacifier is arriving on Sunday and she's has plans to use the weekend to clean her room and get her littlespace ready... Someone help me. What is happening?
WORK
There’s an open wound on my finger from a hangnail and it has pus. I have work tomorrow and a training video said to report any injuries like that to an employer, but it’s just so small I don’t wanna make a big deal out of it. Should I tell my manager or would a bandaid do?
This is the second week of a new job I just started. It's a very small office. My coworker will not stop talking to me all day long, no matter what cues I give for her to stop. All she talks about is terrible things about everyone in the company, what they have done to her, and little ways she has gotten back at them. On top of that she's super nosey, admits to listening in on people's convos, and even showed me the pay rate of a contract worker in the same office (she is accounts payable). This job is a considerable pay raise from my previous job and in every other way pretty awesome. I don't know what to do about this coworker. Help!
I've this temp job for about 6 months now and my contract is coming to an end. HR said, they're trying to open a position for me but I'm not sure if I want it. Well, I think do. This company gives me weird vibes. Overall it's fine. I get paid fine for what I do, people are friendly enough, and my lunches are finally longer than 20 minutes. I must say though, it does get very boring. I only have one issue, and it's kinda more of an department issue, No one knows how to communicate. People will actively avoid talking to one another so when shit hits the fan everyone is annoyed and confused. It turns into hours of "explain everything you do at this job because this shit is confusing me". After hours of this we finally fix the problem, and I feel like total shit. It's like I've been gaslighted for the past few hours. I don't know what it is. It's probably an issue with me but it's really wearing me down after 6 months. I welcome any and all advice.
Found out a coworker is recording zoom calls without letting people know before hand or asking if it’s okay. It makes me uncomfortable; am I wrong to feel that way? They mentioned they were recording half way through a call, after I asked if I needed to slow down, so I don’t think there was any nefarious intent. I told them they should probably ask in the future, but I don’t trust that they will.
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