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RELATIONSHIPS
I (24f) got home around 4 and started making dinner at 5. My boyfriend typically gets off work around 5:30 but didn’t get home until 6, until I was already making dinner. He got home, gave me a hug and some kisses, and immediately wanted to get on his PC because his friends were on. I spent the entire time after I got home from work cooking dinner and when it was ready, he was mid game but was aware dinner was ready. I don’t like telling him what to do and don’t want to seem controlling, so I just softly say “it’s okay” when he asks to game to push past my feelings. We just have a conversation last week about how I was feeling neglected when he games every night. How do I get him to eat dinner with me?
My girlfriend just broke up with me and I went to smoke and have drinks with some friends we still currently live together so when I got back she told me that I didn't care about or love her and I don't care about our relationship when she was the one to break up with me then she started to say that she was going to kill herself because don't nobody love or care about her but I do love and care about her this has happened multiple times where she'll break up with me then start to tell me I don't love or care about her and she is going to kill herself and I have gotten back with her each time she has done it. Somebody please help me.
So I'm a dude and he's also a dude and he's the best person I've ever met in life. I like to believe that God gifted me him. Because without him I probably wouldn't be alive. He helped sculpture my moral compass and taught me so many things, he's basically my older brother. I'd give my life for his with no hesitation and he would do the same. So anyway, our bond is unbreakable and he always has my back. In the last few years we started to become cuddly to some degree and I'm more than fine with that, he's one of the few people I can be myself with. Everytime we see each other we hug, and everytime one of us gets upset we would hug each other for comfort. So today me and my friends were hanging out and decided to sit on the sidewalk he leaned in and put his head on my shoulder and that's very normal we would do this all the time. But this time, out of nowhere, he lifted his head and kissed me on my left cheek and I was surprised but it was a pleasant surprise, tbh it made me feel warm and nice, but I didn't do anything so it won't get weird. I don't know how I feel about this, not that it bothered me but I didn't expect it. Should I expect more? Or should I do nothing about it?
I met someone on a dating site and we got along wonderfully. They are extremely sweet and funny. I made sure to be super transparent about myself and post pictures that reflect the actual me. We scheduled a date for tomorrow night which we both seemed excited for. My excitement was shot down when they began questioning why I dress the way I dress which is more on the alternative/rocker side. They said that they prefer someone who doesn’t dress like I do but doesn’t want me to change and still wants to go on the date because my personality is nice. I don’t know if I’m overthinking it but something about someone reacting negatively to my choice in clothing and telling me I’m not their preference makes me feel like going on the date just isn’t the right move but I don’t want to rush to judge someone either. Should I still go on the date?
We broke up about 2-3 months ago in June. We had been together for about 5 years. After like a month of our break up she started talking to guys and flirting, not in a serious way. But basically I know what she’s doing which is what I used to do when I was like 16 to 19, is just flirt a bunch because its fun, it gets your mind off of things and who knows what you can benefit from it. I understand. However, why is it that i cant bring this side of me out anymore? Why is it so easy for her to do this but hard for me?
My boyfriend knows I’m not happy and actually told me he can see in my eyes that I’ve given up. He started crying and said I’m not the same person he fell in love with, and he knows it’s because of his actions, and he feels selfish knowing that I’m unhappy and feels I’m still here because he’s going through a difficult time and he wants to stop giving me false hope that things will change. He pretty much told me that he knows I’ve been thinking of ending things, and would understand if I decide to leave. I never thought he would say something like that. And we live together so I’m not sure where to go from here. What do I do now?
PARENTING
My daughter is turning 17 in November and is a junior in high school. Her boyfriend will be 18 in January. He’s a senior. They’ve been dating for 7 months. We’ve been pretty lenient with her. She’s a good kid, has a job, gets straight As. Her boyfriend has been allowed to hang out in her room with the door closed. She’s on birth control. I believe they have started having sex in the past 2 months. I really don’t care to know for sure. They boy is a nice kid. We like him a lot. Here’s the thing - I don’t want them having sex in my house. Is that really strict? I don’t think so. There’s no way my parents would have even allowed me to be alone in my bedroom for hours with a boy. I don’t mind kissing, snuggling, etc. but is it too much to have a rule of no sleeping with your boyfriend in our house?
I need some help and support for my wife. I work 12-hour shifts at night and she’s having to do 20+ hours of childcare by herself, with no support. Despite all the people that said that they’d help and be there, their not around or anywhere to be seen or heard from. I’m gonna be looking for a new job but what can I do in the meantime? She has postpartum depression, and she’s losing her poor little mind because of our child. We suspect that our baby girl has baby-version of GERD, just like my wife had and still has to this day, so that means strictly breastfeeding but our baby will nurse for literal HOURS at a time and she’s still hungry… what can I do?
For how long should I wait until I let my kids meet my boyfriend? Me and their dad are no longer together and I've been dating this guy for a few weeks, but we've been friends since January. I trust him 100% and he has a daughter of his own and is really good with her. I feel like I should wait a bit longer but at the same time I'm so in love with this guy and I really do want him to meet my kids and vice versa. What do you guys think?
Help! I need some help with creative thinking here. Long story short my toddler got an egg from my friends chicken coop. She was helping carry the eggs back inside but thought it was so cute and did not want to let it go. I thought it was so cute too so I helped her make a nest to keep “Eggy” safe. She’s pretty smart and knows that eggs hatch baby chicks and has been telling her dad and I how she can’t wait for her to hatch and that she’s going to love her forever. Eggy sleeps in her nest by her bed and has been coming everywhere with us. We have been trying to come up with creative ways for Eggy to hatch or swap her out. Or just next steps in general. She’s been careful when taking Eggy out her next so we don’t think her dropping it is a possibility. We’re thinking of cleaning the egg out and trying to fill it with jelly beans. We definitely let this attachment to an egg spiral but it was too adorable. Any suggestions?
My 2 year old squeezes out all the shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, moisturising creme, hair gel and we're forever wasting so much money having to replace these items when he dumps them all out when they're full. I've tried putting them under the sink and he just opens it (broke the child lock). Plus I don't want to have to go out of my way to get what I need from the bathroom how can I just teach him to stop doing this?
My son, 7 and a half, lost a tooth yesterday. The Tooth fairy questions started with the last tooth ("is there really a tooth fairy? What does she do with the teeth?") And I kinda played it off. I didn't lie, but I was vague. This time, he straight up said he didn't think there was a tooth fairy, that he thought it was just me coming in after he was asleep. I asked if that's what he really thought (yes), if he was sure (yes), and then I confirmed that he was right. I told him that we pretend the tooth fairy is real because it's fun, and because losing teeth is a big deal since it means he's growing up. I also said that part of knowing the secret is keeping it so he doesn't spoil the fun for other kids. My mom thinks I shouldn't have told him the truth, that I should have kept the fairy myth alive for a little while longer. Is she right? Did I screw up?
FTM to a beautiful 12 week old baby girl who since the beginning of her days has sucked her fist, index finger or thumb. I have been taking it as a hunger cue which has been fine. The other night I caught her doing it in her sleep for the first time. MIL is adamant I give her a pacifier as they are easier to toss away, can't remove her hand. However I feel very strongly against them as neither my partner or I had one as children. Do they grow out of sucking hand?
SEX
How to get my wife to let me give her a facial? We got married 2 months ago and she’s never swallowed my cum, but this is a fetish I’ve always had. She’s let me cum on her ass and tits but I want to cover her face with my seed. Any ideas/tips?
My super hot soon to be fiancé is a stripper and bi. I know, what a lucky guy I am haha. We haven’t discussed bringing someone else into the bedroom until she sent me a snap from work with another girl saying they want a threesome. This is going to be my first one so I’m just looking for some tips to keep them both satisfied as well as having fun myself. Any suggestions?
My boyfriend stays hard when I jack him off with my hand but as soon as he is inside me for a few minutes he starts to lose his boner. He apologizes and is super upset and embarrassed about it..On the very rare occasion he stays hard the whole time when we are having sex. Any advice on what’s happening?
Hello I’m a (f20) I lost my virginity when I was 19 I’ve had sex plenty of times. I’ve had issues having an orgasm in the past. But since I got together with my boyfriend of three months I’ve never not had an orgasm. But I can’t ever orgasm when I play with myself. I have only tried two toys. Should i try more?
I am 31 year old virgin got hitched recently. Initial couple of weeks were great the sensation of touching 😘and licking alone was enough to make us both cum. Now we are preparing for full on intercourse. Please suggest dos and don'ts.
So me and my girl have sex often, but the way me or her initiates it is the same all the time. We first kiss each other, then I move down south, then we have sex after. Is there another way to start it? Like a more interesting way?
My wife had a baby almost 3 months ago and the sex has not been an option. I have tried multiple times and she gets very angry and annoyed. Even asked for a hand job to which she got angry. She is not breastfeeding but is pumping regularly. I’m going to be honest and can’t remember the last time we have been intimate since it’s been so long. I am so aggravated with her and have a short temper at any given time due to lack of sex. Any advice?
WORK
I work in a web development team. We create websites and build SEO but we're pretty small. There are only about 15 of us altogether. I was hired in 2020 as a copywriter but the marketing manager clearly wanted me to be more than that and has been pushing me towards greater things, which is nice and I've learned a lot. (side note, I have never met any of the team, we're all remote based). I took this job for 2 reasons, I wanted something less stressful than my previous job with a big firm and I wanted to work from home. Both wishes were granted. It's now been almost 18 months and my manager says they want me to go to Berlin with them for a conference, and then they want me to help table another conference in Malta. Can I say no to the trip?
I started a new job a month ago & I’m really enjoying it. It was a parallel move for me & I came to this company to get more opportunities. My manager Jane is moving to another position & I want her job. We have the same amount of experience, I have a slightly higher qualification but there are some products of the company that are new to me. I’m worried about ruining my reputation already if I put myself forward for this by appearing naive but I also don’t want to miss the opportunity. I know I’d be able to do the job well if I got a crash course in the products that are new to me. So my question is two-fold, can I ask for the promotion? If so, how do I even broach the topic?
probation period. the key to success at work is keeping my mouth shut. so i need tips: how do i stfu and let them enact a process with so many holes in it i can tell them exactly how long it will take to not work, what the error will be, and why they missed it. how do i remain silent and not say anything!???
Work in a small office. I’m f28 and my coworker is m26. I’ve been in many office settings multiple times but this is the first time I’ve been in a position where someone fist bumps me at least a minimum 5 times a day lmao. I don’t mind as much because it’s harmless (so i think) but he does it in very weird instances like when I’m eating or when he has to pass me multiple times (in rapid succession) but I’m big on hygiene and ik Monkey Pox ain’t no fun so i immediately wash my hands or sanitize. I also notice he doesn’t do it to everyone so it’s weird but am i overreacting or is it nothing and just tolerate it?
On Monday, I was told that I got the job and to expect a phone call on Tuesday. Only now it’s Thursday and I haven’t heard anything. Not even a reply to my email saying how excited I am & thank you. How would you approach this?
I asked someone to pick up a shift yesterday. Today, my grandma was admitted to the hospital, and I need to go tend to her as well as take care of my young little brother, who lives with my elderly grandfather (our parents aren’t around.) I’m the only really capable one around & they need my help. I let her know I can’t cover her shift the next day, and she said she already made plans. We never talked to the manager, but it’s in the work group chat. Is it my shift to cover or find coverage? What do I do?
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